These roses were from a funeral today and someone would like to preserve the petals for use in about a month for their flower girl to throw.

A friend's six year old daughter will be serving as a flower girl at her sister's wedding tomorrow. Is this legal? Someone said that she was too old and I am afraid that the wedding will be raided by the State Police. That's the last thing we need!!! If raided, will the six year old be breaking the law or the couple getting married? Or does the liability fall on the wedding planner? Or perhaps the girl's parents? Please help!!

I have a very small, almost non existant, family. I would like my godson, who will be 4 when I get married, to be the ring bearer. I would like a close friend's little sister, who will be 12, to be the flower girl. Are those ages appropriate? It would be sort of cute, too, because the little sister is my godson's aunt!

A girl I used to be really good friends with is getting married in Sept. She is my daughter's god mom. She wants my 4-year-old to be her flower girl, one of two. She expects me to fork out 120.00 for a dress. Who do you think should have to pay for it? The bride or the mother of the flower girl? The other flower girl is her cousin and her parents have lots of money. My husband and I do not and she knows that, but she expects me to buy the dress. Who is right and who is wrong? My husband and I was not asked if my daughter could be in the wedding. She just assumed so. When I got married, we paid for all the brides maids dresses and tuxe's. We were thinking that if we couldn't afford to pay for those things then we shouldn't ask them to be in it.